One of the major causes of problems in families is addiction. A person can be addicted to some awful things and the others are not comfortable with it. This can lead to several disputes with heated arguments at times. These arguments if not looked into, at times, can be brutal!
Coming from a home ridden with domestic violence is bad because you would have a biased view of life and when this happens, you might think that those coming from good homes with awesome tales to tell are boasting! Just as in the case of the late Osinachi, it was alleged that the man reportedly told his children that beating a woman is good. Our society is exposed to such men and when nothing is done, they would spread the misconception across with ease.
Letting children know the truth is vital even though it may not suit your ego, tell them. There is always a place for everything. Do not allow your children to be empty of filled with chaff especially if they that come of age.
The following are some of the things that one can be addicted to which are not good:
1. Nicotine
2. Extravagant spending
3. Unnecessary nagging
4. Coming home late
5. Complaining about everything and always looking for who to blame.
6. Giving excuses rather than results where expected.
7. Exploring false religion
8. Hearing gossips
9. Drug
10. Having criminal tendencies.
11. Womanizing and vice versa
12. Drunkenness
13. Illegal deals.
There could be other things but what is wrong is wrong. Let us now look within ourselves and know that there are solutions to these!
Do not be an enemy of progress. When your husband or wife is going higher in life, allow him or her. As much as possible, be a good person.
There is no measurement to what honesty can do if applied normally. In every dealing, be honest.
We these, we understand that problems are solvable.
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