That is why I can access the internet. So, somethings are prerequisites for another! You don't just wake up one morning at get married! No, you need to be trained. At least, by observations.
Ask yourself some vital questions so that you would know how to deal with some issues when you get into marriage! What your doing could be wrong and you still continue in it because your conscience is deadened! Today, we are talking about Sister Osinachi Nwachukwu, tomorrow, we wouldn't know who it's gonna be but I hope it never happens again.
Look around you and know if you're following the right people and if you are not, pull out at once! Jettison what they have told you that is wrong especially if they have trivialized the issue of beating one's spouse.
Marriage is for better for all but once misinformation creeps in, it becomes difficult to discover who is the culprit. We are not actually interested in who wins the argument, we are more interested in knowing that you live well at all cost because pollution to the family is pollution to the society especially if it litters out!
If you have formed the habit of keeping all things to yourself, when you finally let them out, people would wonder why you waited for so long. No matter the magnitude of problems you have, there could be someone who has the solution out there, just speak to the right persons. Keep an open mind and welcome the possiblity of having a change of stance on somethings.
As much as possible, look onto God but do not be foolish because common sense is applicable.
Today, remove beatings from your list. There are other ways to settle disputes especially if you know that domestic violence is a crime. Whether you admit it or not, ignorance is not an excuse.
Do not feign ignorance when you are expected to know what works: cheating in marriage does not work!
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